Valentine’s Day is all about showing your love, but let’s be real—some gifts completely miss the mark. If you don’t want your romantic night to turn into an awkward “thanks… I guess?” moment, avoid these at all costs.

Here’s what not to give unless you’re secretly hoping to end things.

1. Last-minute gas station gifts 🚨

If you’re picking up chocolates and a stuffed bear from the checkout aisle on the way to your date, just… don’t. She knows you put zero thought into it. A Valentine’s gift should feel personal, not like an afterthought.

💡 Better idea: Instead of a generic grab-and-go gift, create something meaningful—like a String Art Kit, where you can turn your favorite couple’s photo into handmade art. (And no, this isn’t a gas station find.)

2. Gym memberships or weight loss programs 😬

Unless they specifically asked for it, this is just a fast track to an argument. A Valentine’s gift should say I love you, not I think you need to hit the gym.

💡 Better idea: A creative, stress-relieving activity you can do together—like crafting or making something personal.

3. A gift for yourself disguised as a gift for them

Getting your partner a gaming console you’ve been wanting or tickets to a band only you like? Yeah, they’ll see right through it.

💡 Better idea: Make it about them. A gift that holds meaning, like turning a special memory into art, will always be a win.

4. A pet (unless this was 100% discussed) 🐶

A surprise puppy might seem cute, but pets are a lifetime commitment. If your partner isn’t fully prepared for that responsibility, this “gift” just becomes stress.

💡 Better idea: If they love animals, maybe a thoughtful custom pet portrait would be a safer bet.

5. Boring, predictable gifts (aka, another candle) 🕯️

Listen, candles are great. But if every year your partner gets the same scented candle and a card, they might start wondering if you actually know them.

💡 Better idea: Go for something that feels unique and personal. Instead of another forgettable gift, imagine gifting a piece of art made from your favorite photo together—something handmade that actually means something.

So what should you get instead?

Something personal, something thoughtful, something that shows effort.

If you want a gift that’s creative, meaningful, and actually fun to make, try a String Art Kit—it lets you turn a couple’s photo into handmade art. A gift that’s made with love will always be better than one that feels like an afterthought.

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